I need to crush my EGO

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It's just the right time I realised that I need to crush my EGO, or else it's gonna crush me top to toe.

I say this in the context of some personal issue. It goes like this:

I love my partner a lot, more than I can afford. And this is the one last time I am gonna give it my all in a relationship. I have been through a lot in my past, but this time, it feels a lot different. I am happy, she makes me the happiest guy. It's just great with her. She is my dream girl.

But there is one problem. I try my best to keep her safe and happy. But sometimes I fail to do this. And that's my fault. I make her unhappy, I make her feel lonely. I realise that. But she never tells me that. She hasn't yet uttered a single word ever about her sadness whenever she is unhappy. But I can always feel it. I know when I make her sad. And then when I realise that, I start thinking within my head, "I try so much to keep her happy and safe, but she doesn't understand that I try so hard." And this is the result of my EGO. This thing is killing me. I need to crush my EGO and understand the fact that I need to do everything that is needed to make this relationship the best ever for both of us. I need to understand that my EGO is not at all important compared to her in my life.
So, for one last time, I m gonna give my all to a relationship. Throw away my EGO to the trash-can, and I am gonna just focus on keeping her happy and safe and when she is happy and safe, I know I am the happiest guy on this planet.

I think everyone else should also realise this that in life, you get one chance to live. To make things right. So give up your EGO, and make people around you happy. Because that's all that matters.

Cheers!!

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